You know, resetting your life after divorce is complicated enough but adding kids into the mix and couple that with the trials and tribulations of going through the divorce process through the family court system and it can be a very overwhelming experience.

I know that was the case for me. There wasn’t a lot of information out when I was in the early stages of my divorce and I really had to struggle, with the help of my support system, to get through all of this.

Having a few years under my belt and a bit more experience in dealing with the daily life of divorce and being, basically, a single father (at least for half the time) I’ve learned a few things.

That is the reason I created this site, I don’t want another dad to have to go through this alone without a lifeline along the way. I hope to share my experiences, the good and the bad, in an effort to help you get through this faster and with the minimal amount of damage to yourself and your kids!


Break the Cycle with DSD
Break the Cycle with DSD

I am very excited to announce the launch of my new podcast Break the Cycle with DSD! The podcast is officially LIVE and is now available on iTunes, Google Play, and Stitcher!

I know a lot of people have been asking about podcasts for a while now and it has been something I’ve been wanting to do. To be honest, when I first thought of doing the channel a podcast was the original vision. It was only after Debby encouraged me to step in front of the camera that I started making videos.

Don’t worry, I am not stopping the YouTube channel and I’m going to continuing making videos and doing livestreams. This just provides me another opportunity to connect with you where you are.


When you start to realize something just isn’t right in your divorce it can be very overwhelming. Even if you have heard the horror stories you never expect that it is going to happen to you. I’m here to tell you You are not alone!. Covert narcissistic emotional abuse is pervasive and very destructive. It can leave you shell shocked and with post traumatic stress disorder that negatively impacts every aspect of your life.

You are not alone! Covert narcissistic emotional abuse is pervasive and destructive

Validation that what you are experiencing is really happening is critically important for your ability to deal and cope with these traumatic situations.